22 January 2009

Bachelorette Party - Update

Our bachelorette party was funnn! (Yes, even despite it being stripper-less.) While we're all glad for our Drunken Buddy, it's kind of sad in a way. I remember Valentine's day last year, about 3 of us in the picture, all in a heartbroken mess, went out for a very expensive self-indulgent dinner to soothe our wounds, passionately declared how much we hate men over several bottles of wine, ordered shitloads of food and ended up eating nothing. And then went on and on about how much we hate Valentine's Day. And it's not just on the personal front, these are also people I've always leaned on very heavily at work as well.

Our boyfriends hurt us, we run to each other. Fights with mom, brothers, sister and you're feeling lost, you run to them. Granted, our soothing solutions and pain-killers are not always the most conservative :-) but hey, they work. Even when you're hurting the most, it's amazing how much comfort you can get from just having your girlfriends around, and their support along with their presence.

And this is why I think marriage is a meddlesome thing. I think it creates more gaps than it does bringing people together haha

And the anonymous volunteer from Mumbai (ahem! Are you a copywriter by the way?) - it's too bad that I only got to see your offer a day after the party :(

And, the bride to be is the one in the red dress :)

27 comments:

illusionaire said...

heh. I subscribe to the comment of your previous post, and when I saw that stripper's comment and read "Mumbai" I knew at once it was either Amos aka Goldmember or Jimmy aka BW who wrote that comment. sala.

:-)

Anyway, glad you had so much fun sans the stripper. See, life is very beautiful too without any of these dirty elements. I'm sure glad you're able to realize that now at least, dear. Better late than never. :-P

*GRIN*

hugzzz.

sawmpuia said...

Kan sawi ve chi awmlo tlat :-) Hmeichhe film chang mai ru...

toy soldier said...

Yet again Ive got to say-I like you and I love your blog..

Your idea of having fun, and everything..its so not me, but still, you made me reading them and falling in love with your every post..

Great to hear that you had fun...

Sekibuhchhuak said...

I picture ho chu ka duh chi deuh vek an ni mai ( hehehe ) in chhe lo hlawmkhawp mai !

Jerusha said...

Kimkims - But the biggest contributor of dirty elements in my life - who incessantly swamp me with all dirty things right from the pure early hours of the morning - is you. Does that mean you don't want me to see the clean beautiful side of life? :P

sawmpuipuis - Kan chang dawn alawm. Kill Bill part - 3. Ka rawn hrilh ang che a chhuah veleh :)

Jerusha said...

toy soldier - And I can't think of anything to say except that I am genuinely flattered and a BIG thank you! :) And just between us - to be frank, I don't even know what's me anymore! But I hope to get there and find myself some day!

Seki - pasal nei tur tih loh khi chu vancancy a la awm vek e :PP

Joseph L said...

Comment dan vak pawh ka thiam lo. In khawngaihthlak ka ti bawk si... :-) . And in pics khi in chhelo hlawm khawp mai..

BW said...

Who's that HOT chick in a green mini (the one on the right)? She's HOT!!

/gak, why do I ALWAYS forget that I'm a 'happily' married man!

Anonymous said...

first of all i m happy that u all had a nice party filled with joy and fun....

i m mr. anonymous. I m not copywriter. U can call me ZEN. (-o-)

I stay in mumbai and work out here.... and sometimes when i get bored with routine work... i log on and surf like i did when i wrote u the msg.... i m sorry that i was late... but maybe that God wants me to practice more for yr next party..hehe..

Anonymous said...

in yr last scraps u had mentioned that u prefer to call smeone whom u know rather then a person whom u dont know...

so now its the time when u can know me better....i m happy that u have time to know me better and be familiar with me- "a friend ZEN"...

i like good food... i lov italian, indian and thai crusines..

i lov to travel...and i like nature... i also like to go on a long drive..

well that all about me... u can add me in yr buddy list on yahoo msg as zenstar4u.

wonderboy said...

Ka chung a mi hian a * chiang che :D
pic a mi ho hi an lokal dawn tih hre lawk ilang chuan ka rawn in volunteer khrim khrim ang! Lolz...
Mahse khi in hman nawm hmel tho alawm!!
Keipawh a hring ha khi!! Happy single bechalor ka la nia! :D

Calliopia said...

Yeah, here's to girlfriends. I can totally relate to the note of sadness in your post, notwithstanding the happy pictures. It is pretty sad when your best girlfriends marry. Nothing's ever quite the same anymore. However determined they may be to make sure they don't rock the boat, they cannot but have new priorities and nothing's quite like it used to be. But then c'est la vie.

vana said...

Mmmh..nawm hmel hle mai. Valentine's day cc i rawn thailang zawk bawk a, engtik nge kha! lolz. Nunkhua a khawhar chang a thiante hlutzia ka hre chhuak ve a keipawh. Vanduaina hian thiante min ngaihzual tir thin. Voin ka thiapa 2000 a boral lung phun na ah kan kal a, lung a leng thar hle mai. Thiante hi an va hlu em

Jerusha said...

father - hahah ni e tiraw keini pawh khawngaihthlak kan in ti bon!

Zim - Nupui neih nuam ti leh intihtheih pui ber pawh hian tlangval emaw hi an inti tho zel mak khawp mai! :PP Green mini = Zorock/Mikal M sailo/Vincy from our videos.

Jerusha said...

Mr Anon - we'll add you soon. We can discuss next years party in private later right ;P

Wonderboy - Tu emawni bawl aniin ka hria khi a khawngaihthlak khawp mai! :) happy single I la nih chuan green mini pawh happy single tho ania, ka lo biak thruai mai dawn che mi? :)

Jerusha said...

J - exactly! They insist they'll still go out with us every week, join in on all the sleepovers, crazy parties but the truth is, it's not really for them to decide after they're married. And no matter how much you all try, you do drift apart a bit.

vana - Ni e tiro! Keipawh ka thiante hi ka nunah an pawimawh tawp ani mai, vairam ah chhungte awm loh na ah leh phei hi chuan thiante hi chhungte an ni mai a, tu emaw hi lo thi emaw ta se, ka tuar thiam lo viau ang keipawh.

Carey Suante said...

Where's the post I was reading on my reader?

un-posto-al-sole said...

You've been busy...only a couple of updates since I went on Holiday :)

The party looks fun. Too bad you didn't find the stripper. The sort of party I would love! :D

Lucy said...

And where's the "Mizoram tinuamtu"???

elvy Leivang said...

Orpi is HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Almost Unreal said...

i sam chu kir leh ta mi a?? ngun vel chuh...lol

in chhe lo hlom ltks

Jerusha said...

Luce & Carey - temporarily pulled back, sorry!

And Luce - Mzioram tihreawmtu alawm :) And I'll invite you for our next hen's night, there will be brides to be sometime again soon hopefully. It's only a 9 hour bus ride from there to here.

Jerusha said...

Elvy - boss in kan chei chiah chuan a dang zar mai ani :P

unaunu - Ngun = 1 Dozen = Rs 12/- LOL! Drew Barrymore style kan la ve anih khi, music & lyrics last concert scene ah khan a tih kha nalh ka ti lutuk a, ka zawn nasat zia mai chu a!

sharon said...

you r a lucky lady to have a Mr. Anonymous posing as a stripper...

i faced the same problem with the hens party done by us some weeks ago... getting a stipper in mumbai is a pain.

infact i mailed this anonymous guy known as zenstar4u@yahoo . com and added him on messenger.He is a nice and relaibale safe guy.... i plan to call him in my next party in march..thanks as we ladies now have a reliable and a good looking guy to entertain all ladies....may feminism prevail ...thanks for your blog.

malestripper said...

I am zenstar4u @ yahoo . com.... the male stripper

i am ready to strip at the hens party and u can chat with me on yahoo msg or get in touch with me on my email!! v can take the discussions forward on the chat.

ladies still searching for a stripper can call me for the hens parties...

we can chat on my yahoo msg id zenstar4u@yahoo.com for the details.. like costumes , dances prefered, collor/pole dance etc...

wish all the ladies a happy valentines day.

Anonymous said...

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